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life in the woods

Are we meant to be married to the same person for 50 years?   My friend of 66 years has been married that long but her circumstances are somewhat unconventional.  While she lives in the family home her husband lives in a wooden cabin in the woods that surround, the house.   The reason for this is not coventional either.  They see each other every day,  they eat meals together,  they have a joint bank account and neither wants a divorce.  So why do they have this arrangement?   why don't they just have separate bedrooms?  Well the reason is my friend is incredibly untidy while her husband prefers a certain amount of order and minimilism.  Did it really take 50 years to discover this?  I don't think so.  Had it been acceptable to live together 50 years ago then no doubt they would have discovered that they were incompatible.  Or would they?

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